I spend a lot of time trying to find the perfect card, but then I never know if it will hit the reader the same way it hit me. I just do my best and hope for the best. Most people I know just enjoy getting the cards even if they aren't exactly right. I probably spend the most time on trying to find the perfect one for my Mom. Not that she is difficult--okay, she is--but because I want it to say exactly the right thing.