Get all your things. Have someone there to support you and help you when you do that. Call police immediately if he lays a pinky on you. Block him from all online stuff. Remove him from your phone. Do not answer when he calls. Do not talk to him, do not see him, do not have anything to do with him.

He is obviously an alcoholic with some other major issues, as indicated above. You deserve and will find much, much better. The path to that starts with him in your rearview mirror.

Sending you strength!! You can do this!!!!!