In reading this guy's age, only 20 when this happened? That is still SO YOUNG and how he ended up with an abusive woman and he tried to do the right thing and marry her because she was pregnant? I don't know, that's still VERY young to have the life skills to deal with all he had to deal with. Both of you were so young yet when your marriages failed.

And, another concerning thing was that woman he married was older and seemed to pick men so you, probably to control them which clearly isn't working well for her.

How old are both of you now?