Thanks Rio but...she's already spent money travelling down here and money on a hotel...I'll be on a major guilt trip if i don't see her tomorrow. I just wish she'd thought to ask me first as we've only seen each other twice in the last 12 years...and each time she flamed me bad.

Guess i just gotta bite the bullet, go and see what happens...just not looking forward to it.
Thanks for your support tho ((Rio))