I see. When you already have a complex, and your best friend stressed on it, when telling the opinion of her friends about you. It’s normal you get triggered. It was one of the worst day in my life.

I understand what a constructive criticism is and welcome them if you can do something to fix it up and it will likely means the person cares but what’s the point when you can’t do anything about it. Then, there are ways and ways to say something. Finally it’s the superficiality that it all implies in many occasions. I consider myself quite socially inept to have to cope also with stupidities.