He said he placed the cameras when he left to work out of state for 3 days. I asked if he thought I would cheat on him. It’s just a complete lack of trust. Recording our sex would not have been an issue if he had told me about it right after. But this camera has been there for weeks already. I asked him if he would’ve told me but he obviously waited until or hoped I wouldn’t find it.

I am aware it is abuse. Sadly I don’t think he is aware of that. All the other abusive incidents we’ve encountered have never been abusivo according to him. I can go to a family members house. My parents have told me that their house is open anytime for me. But I’m just not sure if I want to involve the family.