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Originally Posted by sarahsweets
Hey @lady411
Did you slap him in self defense?
It is setting a bad example for your kids. They will grow up with a dysfunctional view on marriage.
Being vunerable is one thing, but it can lead to him controlling you.
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I do respond aggressively but I could never get close enough to hurt him back. He is very strong and very fast.
I agree completely that it is setting a terrible example for the kids no matter their age. They hear, see, and feel everything. When they are around I do try to keep my calm for their sake.
Can you please elaborate on how being vulnerable can lead to him controlling me?