What is stressful about going to San Francisco? Is it the traffic or is it a long drive?

I hate driving long distances myself, especially in traffic. I find it stressful since most people here are bad drivers, hence the name "Massholes."

Nevertheless, I hope the move goes smoothly. Maybe it won't be so bad when you get there? I find that I build up a lot of anxiety before an event and I start thinking that everything is going to go wrong, but everything ends up okay in the end.