My husband and I talked about just giving him the apology he wants- to say that we had no right to our feelings, were wrong to feel it, were wrong and deeply regret not attending his wedding— even though none of that is true.

If it would repair the relationship and our son would start treating us as he used to, we’d do it. But it wouldn’t do anything except give him and his wife some kind of victorious power they seem to be craving.

So I feel like I just need to stay away and am severely depressed.

@AzulOscuro Do you want to talk about what happened with your parents? Maybe I can help as a mother to repair your issues.