Be careful how you engage with these men if you in fact do care for them.

Because of the age difference and todays hyper sensitive and often skewed perspective on the appropriateness of these types of situations, even innocent behaviors and and actions can be misinterpreted creating extremely volatile situations where a simplistic, uninformed kneej erk reaction could land one of these guys in a world of trouble.

It's sad but it's also the reality of life in the year 2008. There's always a busy body somehwere who feels the obligation to insert thier moral judgements unsolicited into things that may or may not concern them.

Be careful.