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Sounds hauntingly similar to a relationship I was in during a time when my husband and I had split up. The only difference was that I lost the baby 1/2 way through the pregnancy. I truly believe the extreme stress I was under played a part in the miscarriage.
Finally, one night when he came home drunk and loaded (he was using meth and heroin - I had absolutely no idea what was wrong with him) I gathered my pets, a few (very few) items and left. Done, done, done.
I never saw him again, never spoke with him again. I moved to a different town. It's been 5 years - finally peace.
I heard from old friends that he was homeless and addicted for 3 years, but has finally gotten into rehab and has an apartment to live in. He has also been dx'ed with bipolar disorder and is on meds. Good for him. I wish him well - from a long distance. I will never speak with, or see him, again.
If you're serious, and if you truly want to keep yourself safe and healthy, you will need to break off all connections with your scummy ex. Seriously. If you don't, you're as messed up and he is - and no one wants to be messed up like that, do they?
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