LOL don't think that hiding bit hasn't entered my mind. Other solutions that have entered my mind...she doesn't know this city so just be out, she wouldn't know where to look...or...get a friend to fone saying i've been abducted by aliens (?) sorry if that sounds weird but if i don't laugh i'm gonna cry...lol.

you are right about not needing it though...i've sent her a text...again...if she doesn't respond i think i'll just ignore her. hate to be cruel but...she's always got an agenda you know?