It's been a while since men have really noticed me, possibly because I was overweight and careless about my appearance, due to not having the time or effort. I didn't miss it much, but just to know I still looked okay or an occasional reminder would have been nice.

Anyway, since I've lost some weight and began caring about my appearance I have been getting a lot of attention from men. Like today three younger men in a car whistled at me when I was on my walk. They were cute too! As demeaning as it may sound, I was flattered....I even felt myself blush. It's been along time since I've been whistled at like that. I must be getting my groove back.

Anyway, my fear about it is...well, since my marriage is sort of a disaster waiting to happen, an empty marriage...what if the right guy comes along? Should I turn a seemingly good man away? I'm not looking, but what if he just happens upon me like a miracle or something, then what do I do?