If you mean me, i just wasnt up for the drama, and i wasnt the only one saying i needed more specifics in order to help.
Im speaking from the vantage point of now having very little contact with the next generation due to similar circumstances - im hoping to help tisha not have to experience that.
I was the biggest right-fighter, as dr phil calls us. Well, you can be right, or you can be alone. Sometimes the other person doesnt give you much wiggle room, and thats when you have to outsmart them if you can. Because they are fighting dirty (i dont mean tisha, i mean like her DIL is fighting dirty. So being right doesnt count for much. And being supported in being right can ultimately be destructive? Thats why i was trying to focus on goals. Maybe i was overstepping. Thanks for your thoughts. But not animosity! I luvs my tisha!).
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