It’s not about who is right. It’s about giving the opportunity for an approach. In a conflict 99.9 per cent of times, there are two parties and both with their own reason and part of their truth but when one of these parties only offer to the other a “take in” or “take in” there’s not enough maturity to look for an approach. At least, not now.
Again I don’t know the details. Maybe you know more but I don’t need to know the detail because it’s not a matter of judging who is and who is not right.