You can keep talking with us. Tell us more about what is going on if you like.
Is BJ listening to anyone? Is there anyone who can help get through to her that she needs to eat?
Also, do you know of any special treats that BJ might eat and enjoy?
Would a good night sleep help everyone? Another idea - is there any healthy way to distract BJ? Some fun safe entertainment?
Will BJ tell you what she needs before she will eat?
And do you have any support yourself, any good therapist?