Are you seeing a long term therapist? A lot of times they are better help figuring out what is going on. I've had a ton of Dx's from IED, BPD, PD nos, Bipolar 1, general anxiety, bipolar 2, scizoaffective..... It's hard to be med compliant when no one knows what's going on. Currently my therapist and psychiatrist don't agree on my written Dx. I understand wanting a definitive answer but I don't think some of us will get that until psychology and neurology marry and becomes a lot better. I'm sorry.