Thread: Leaving a toxic relationship ~ why is it so difficult?
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Old Mar 02, 2020, 06:21 AM
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv View Post
I FINALLY learned this! When someone treats you badly it’s because they WANT to! I spent so much time and energy trying to figure out what was happening and why. What did I do to deserve such bad treatment? I learned, for whatever reason, they didn’t like me and didn’t want to act nicely to me. It was just that simple. Now when it happens I EXIT stage left.
Well, I think they key is to learn that it's not personal, and that the toxic person would and will treat anyone the same exact way.
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