How would you feel if you found a hidden camera in your bedroom place by your spouse? What if this was the second time you found one in your bedroom?

The first time i found one it was a live cam he could see on his phone. I confronted him about it. I was really upset that he would do something like that. I felt like my privacy was invaded. I felt like he didn’t trust me. He apologized and said he wouldn’t do it again.

This time it wasn’t recording but just the fact that he would place a hidden camera again was infuriating. I went outside to confront him once more. I was so upset I was raising my voice. He kept arguing the fact that he felt just about doing it because he wants to keep an eye on his family. This made me more upset because he wouldn’t apologize or say he wouldn’t do it again. And when I asked him to apologize it didn’t seem remorseful as if he would still do it again in the future. I started yelling at him and he started cussing at me and raising his hand telling me to shut the f*** up. Things took a drastic turn when he surprisingly slapped me in the face. I retaliated unsuccessfully and quickly realized I needed to walk away before it got worse.

This is the first time he slapped me. It wasn’t with such force that it would knock me down but it was enough to hurt me deeply emotionally. I am still trying to process this.

How does a marriage overcome this?