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Originally Posted by fern46
As far as my experience goes that is an impossible expectation of anyone. All we can do is carry a pure intent and potentially smooth over misunderstandings if we deem it important to do so.
Abuse is rampant and cyclical. The best we can do is break the cycle and if you're willing, offer forgiveness. We deserve to walk without the void created by what they took from us. I got myself a shovel and I'm filling in the hole.
It is quite complicated. You can feel any way you need to about it. You can approach it any way you like. No judgment. Thank you for sharing today.
Hugs and respect to you Fuzzy.  |
''we deserve to walk without the void created by what they took from us''
I agree, all we can do is carry a pure intent...
Abusers can and will taint or try to taint pure intent
I like to try to smooth over misunderstandings..
But there are some (not here) who thrive on miscommunications
and manipulations... and projections. grrr
Well said, thanks for posting fern.
hugs and respect to you