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Originally Posted by Have Hope
@ lady411, He physically was abusive while you were pregnant and holding your baby??
I have a feeling he has been physically abusive towards you more than the two times you’ve let us know about.
Why on earth are you still with him?? Don’t you see what you’re doing to your own children?
WHY haven’t you left yet?
Please call a battered women’s help line. You really need counseling and you need sense knocked into you.
Why you believe that physical abuse equals love is beyond my comprehension. What could you possibly still love about a man who beats you physically and verbally? |
Yes he has been abusive on more than two occasions. But I have always felt like I provoked him. It’s like I feel like I deserved which I know I don’t. No one deserves to be treated like that. But the times that I have been abusive to him he has also taken it lightly which is also wrong.
It just makes me think that we are both not good for each other. I see how much other couples have overcome and that’s one of the reasons I haven’t left him.
I will definitely go to individual counseling and hope he goes to couple therapy.
In no way do I believe physical abuse equals love. That would be stupid. He has many qualities and as naive as it may sound I do see us getting us past this. But this situation will only change with me. I will not continue to accept this advisor behavior as the norm.