I like the civility of the holidays and cards, gifts.
I think my whole family fell apart because they moved far from each other and stopped acknowledging festivities.
It’s really hard to choose a nice card for a nasty person. It makes me laugh when reading them in the store, trying to find one suitable.
I just bought a bunch of really beautiful cards I wouldn’t have normally because the store was going out of business, so they were dirt cheap. I’ll send those nice holiday cards. I do feel guilty, though, that because of cheap people like me the store with the lovely cards went bankrupt.