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Originally Posted by lady411
I understand completely that I cannot fix him. But I have faith that he wants his family to succeed and that he will do what he needs to do to keep his family together.
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I get that you WANT things to be better lady411, but he is not holding up his part and having faith is often not enough. He is not behaving like a man who WANTS his family to succeed. You don't keep a family together by scaring and hitting your wife and putting up cameras and spying on her either. These are things CONTROLLING and abusive men do, NOT a caring healthy man.
This is why YOU need to reach out for therapy because you are not seeing what it is, instead you do the hope and pray thing and that's not going to work or fix the dysfunctional control this man is displaying.