I hope your situation improves, RG. My SO goes through periods of very low libido and I just have to wait it out with him. On the other hand, my libido has always been very strong. I've gotten use to periods of keeping myself entertained. Being a stereotypical woman, I'm not quite as visually stimulated, but I have a good imagination and use a lot of visualization. I've also acquired a number of toys. It's been difficult to talk to him about it too. He comes from a Catholic background and nobody in his upbringing ever talked about that. So, when he comes back around, it's usually awkward and I don't get much enjoyment at first because I'm so use to doing it myself and knowing what I want.

So, I really empathize and wish you well in your journey.