I don't think it is selfish KJ. I believe in God myself. But I have to admitt that I too would probably be creeped out myself by that. If someone wants to pray for me, hey, that's great. But I'm not sure if I want just anyone laying their hands on me. Just politely let her know that you aren't comfortable with it. No harm in that I wouldn't think.

But back to your original question....I believe God can do anything for anyone. I also believe, as Rapunzel said above, there is a reason for everything and a purpose for everyone. Maybe her suffering allows her to understand the pain of others.