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Originally Posted by The_little_didgee
Can you explain?
Usually I ask, so I can make sure, I understand what the other person is thinking. It greatly decreases my tendency to question. When I start questioning it takes everything out of me to force myself to stop. It is easier to just ask than put myself through hell.
One of my biggest problems is trying to understand people. It is hard for me to imagine what they are thinking and feeling (perspective thinking). I have to ask, so I can get an idea what they feel.
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I would have a running commentary in my mind of what they would say next. It was pure conjecture but based on previous experience. I think we all do this to some extent- think we know what someone will say or do before they do. Only in my case, I'd guess in my head and then RESPOND as if they had actually said what I thought. It was confusing and frustrating for them. It was also uncomfortable for me because I'd get confused and frustrated looks from them.
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