Thanks for the advice embarassed
It is a plus that i didnt go through with the whole thing and its that bit better than the last time i experienced a whole cake! But theres this silly immature impatient part of me that just wants to have no problems with it all and i know thats unattainable..

The family members that made it for me dont know and im thinking of telling them a toned down version so theyre more aware and so this doesnt happen everytime i visit them.. but im really scared!

how are you doing?