I fully understand not wanting to be IP.
If I were you, I'd call the pdoc again. The squeaky wheel gets the grease, as they say. Screw whether she likes you or hasn't responded or whatever her issue is. The fact is you need intervention. If she is dragging her feet, make it clear that she must provide the care you, as her patient, needs right now. Make yourself stop personalizing her behavior and do what works to get the help that you must have at this time.
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