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Originally Posted by lady411
When I spoke with my brother the MFT last night. He said only I will decide what price I want my children to pay when I decide to leave. That really hit home!!
I don’t want my children to pay anymore of the price they have already paid.
I have been listening and holding on to every concerned word all the members here have expressed. I thank you all for your feedback.
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His two older children know his pattern, they saw it with their mother and they are seeing how he is with you too. It has become something they expect to experience in a relationship, that it's how relationships are, that it's normal.
Is that what you want your own children to think too?