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Lady411, I'm going to come from a different perspective than others. I'm not going to tell you his behavior is abusive. You've already figured that out. I see in your posts that you are mentally moving toward leaving him. When I was in my abusive marriage having people harang me to leave just made me feel worse. I was mentally and emotionally not ready to leave. I already felt like a failure. The more people pushed me the more worthless and weak I felt.
Someone said something to me a few days ago that I believe applies here. Some people change like popcorn, some like molasses. Point being that we all change at our own pace. Do what works for you, okay? Please keep yourself and your kids safe and do what you are able as you are able.
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