(((((((Beau))))))))
You are working hard to help everyone be okay, I appreciate you for that.
BJ needs to eat so she has energy to go to that nice T. And she can tell T now what is going on, remind her that it is up to the T to make decisions about whether something is minor or not. And there is no way to tell if something will work or not before we try it. Let the T do her job.