I think anger can be a mood state. I think in your case your therapist was working with a very limited set of information that did not acurately depict the state of affairs. Rage is different than controllable anger.

I believe she may have counseled you differently if she could have read you posts here or known about you breaking objects, feeling like you would harm others, not eating, or harm yourself if this didn't stop. She might not have ended with offering coping skills as a way forward if she knew you didn't want to be with your family because you feel like it might burden them and that you feel you've tried coping skills and they aren't working.

I feel it is unfair to judge her assessment as inaccurate if you don't offer the whole picture. I am very glad your pdoc got back in touch though. I hope the new Rexulti dose works for you and you find some relief soon. I know you're very uncomfortable and want things to improve.