@ARaven0137 "I also say that I'm a cat in human form. I go about my business, I come by when I need to, but then I'm off hunting again." That feels quite familiar, I'm typically quite similar in modus operandi. I clearly misunderstood your situation, btw, sorry for that. With that cleared up, then I must admit my experiences leave me at a loss for suggestions or advice. My next question is how well does he receive affection? Does he seem to crave things like hugs or massages or petting? Or does this make him uncomfortable? And what about yourself, if I may ask?

When it comes to my SO and I, while I enjoy affectionate attention, I don't go out of my way to seek it... while she CRAVES it, lol. Her general mood is often noticeably improved when I try to remember to do something as simple as massaging her scalp or petting her back.