Hi,


I'm married to a great guy. I have a depression that comes and goes.


From early in our relationship, I found his communication style aggressive and abusive. I tried to raise it a few times, but he said it was all in my head because of depression and because I dont know how to have a healthy confrontation (agree with last part).


Is it possible that even though I feel emotionally abused, it's not actually an abuse?


I feel very confused.