Things recently that died before getting off the ground: revamping a writing curriculum for dyslexics, me testing out of college classes, relearning calc, picking up drawing again (both paper and digital), computer programming classes, gaming again, self care, coloring and cutting my hair, I could go on and on. Both myself and my husband do it. We buy supplies and then by the time it gets here, or a week in we're done. So we've developed a 6 month waiting limit for anything that cost over x amount of money. It's not about the money it's about how bad we feel for dropping it. You don't need judgement from your husband. I'm sorry he does that.