Hi ZazaJ!

While I agree with the others, I am interested to know a little bit more about you (if you are comfortable with it).

You said in your post that your husband is a 'great guy'. Can you please elaborate on this? Does this mean that he is usually just fine, but can get aggressive during arguments?

Are you suffering from depression since before or after your marriage? Are you seeing a therapist or doctor for it?

I am not a psychologist, and I don't know if I can be of any help to you. But I do want to understand you and your situation.