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Originally Posted by hvert
I agree with what everyone else posted. Your discomfort in his house is valid and it is 100% okay to not go back there. I wonder if you are getting some kind of intuitive sense that he is interested in more than friendship and that's part of why you don't want to go there?
It may help to practice saying in the mirror 'No, your place is too far, let's meet halfway at wherever' so you don't keep agreeing to go to his place.
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Thanks for your great advice! I will try practicing in front of the mirror.
Also, you are 100% right about the 'more than friendship' thing. He has told me quite openly that he is attracted to me. I have thought about us, and on paper everything looks good. I have known him for years, he is not unattractive and we are both single. Yet I feel extremely reluctant to be more intimate with him. The thought of us getting intimate in that house scares the living daylights out of me! Having said that, my friend hasn't tried to impose anything. He has behaved like a thorough gentleman.