Many hugs!

Things are going alright. Been lacking in energy recently. Also forgot to take my anti-inflammatories, and was feeling about a million years old as a result, lol.

The ex-bf is moving to a close-by place. I have mixed feelings about this. I've made it clear we won't be hanging out all the time, though it will he nice to have someone around to do things with sometimes. I'm proceeding very carefully and non-committally. I let him know he's got quite the task ahead of him, especially regarding trust issues. He's got to get a job, save money, become self-sufficient, stay substance-free. These are but the very start of non-negotiables. I'll believe it when I see it. I am skeptical, though morally supportive (NOT financially. Made that VERY clear!!). I am in favor of people getting their **** together after all. And I tend to be one to remain on good terms with people that have been in my life.

But my doormat days are OVER. WAY over. I am a much stronger person now and all about boundaries. Now that I have actually lived on my own, I'm no longer afraid of it. In fact I like it very much!

Well, that's enough babbling from me on THAT topic (!) Lol

Have my first psych appointment since autumn this week. Really just getting set up with the new place. Been totally stable for a LONG time now! Yea! So it's all about maintenance.