Hi NeedHelp, I think it would be better for you to get involved with different groups, like meetup groups or find a group that like to do things you like, hobbies, some groups play board games which is actually how my therapist met his wife. Your would fair better if you found others that had the same interests as you. I am not a big fan on meeting people in bars, that is where you may run into someone who may have a drinking problem or may be superficial. It's better to get involved with activities near where you live.