Thank you all very much for responding and weighing in.


I'm at the very beginning of this discovery, so I'm feeling very confused. I'm still in disbelief. I don't want it to be truth.

He doesn't drink - digestive issues.


Why he's a great guy? He's all I ever wanted... He loves me. He's very family oriented. He's always trying to make our lives better. He takes care of a lot of things around the house. He's not spending time watching sports or going out with his friends. He's very well liked. He makes me laugh. We have similar values. ... so he's perfect


... and I'm not.