Every couple is different, but, in my experience, this situation is fairly common. My relationship with my SO can be like this at times, but it's mostly a cold war with us not talking. With us, it has a lot to do with expectations. In my view, I'm not what he expected or wanted. I'm pretty sure he wanted a trophy wife and home maker. I ended up being a career woman and that doesn't sit well with him, being a constant flash point for us. We're going through a phase now where conflict is pretty frequent.

I hope it works out. I'm sorry that you're going through that. I can imagine how frustrating that is.