(Jello)
Sometimes when we have been through a lot of painful experiences it feels as though that is the norm, the way things are supposed to be. But it's not true. We can get out from under and try to experience the finer things in life once again. And sometimes we do have to just sit in it for a while. If that's where you are right now, then that's where you are!
It's okay, we are here too. We'll just sit in it with you until you can come out!
Peace