STORY :About 2 years ago , I got really close with a teacher . I confide in her about my problems . She helped me with them and also she helped me gained interest in psychology . But at the end of the year she got stressed and sick of me texting her and finding her everyday ( I know it seems creepy and I am embarrassed to think about it ) . She got me to see the school counselor with her . I told the counselor to not involve my parents beforehand . I felt angry ,surprised and shocked to find that they called my dad . Luckily , I requested so that my dad was not involved in the conversation . Anyhow , I still couldnt solve my anxiousness knowing that my dad knew about my thing . So I couldn't give my opinion at that moment . This conversation ended up to be worse than I anticipated. My dad was asked to care about me more , I felt awkward and uncomfortable (still the same until now). I started feeling lost , depressed and sad . I got angry about the counselor too. She requested to block me , and never contact me again . I couldn't disagree . After that conversation , I had insomnia , every single emotion is haunting me throughout the school holidays , I have no one to ask for help neither confide in , even my parents because I feel soooo awkward to talk about it(still the same until now ). The year after that, similar things happened but not worse than that and didn't involve counselor (just simply blocked me) and I just had a sudden feeling of what the hell am I doing ! I knew I ****** up and that was a mistake .( Somehow , I felt as if everything wasn't a mistake , it's just me getting "solved" in a simple and not helpful way. And I admit that I had a crush on them , I also suspect I had a few minor erotomania symptoms , I thought they liked me , I felt jealous when they talk to others)

NOW I changed and became more positive (because of bipolar disorder or any anxiety disorders) but I suspect have those anxiety disorders symptoms such as frequent mood swings , felt angry and resentment when one of them caught my attention about their presence or even sudden thoughts about what happened ( I can't help but always feel so embarrassed about what I did. ). I felt lonely too , I wished I could talk to someone who can give me comfort . I have tried greeting them and they give me a smile , which I know is a fake one

PROBLEM I felt great talking to teachers whom I had crush on (maybe because of dopamine) . And now I am struggling because there is a teacher whom I tried not to have a crush on but I still failed . I am trying my best right now to use my consciousness to stop me from texting her , finding her , although my heart felt different. But holy smokes there is literally a same person like me in my class and what he asks , talks , uses to start a conversation with other teachers is the same as mine . I felt confused how he didn't end up like me . He's sitting in front of the teacher's table and I am sitting on his left but different row . I can't help but felt jealous when he talks to the teacher I have crush on . It triggers my feeling to talk and text with that teacher , but I controlled myself. I only converse or ask questions about that subject when she is in class and every single time I see her smile at me I feel happy and satisfied , at the same time my problems are all gone for at least a day . But when I can't satisfy myself because of the other person conversing with her when there is time ( which gives me no choice but to watch and feel depressed because most of the time there is no time left) , I have a feeling of sadness ,anger ,darkness as if I am turning someone bad , and my mood changes .
So right now this just strengthen my feeling of texting her , not everyday of course. But the problem is that I felt so scared that the same thing will happen again , that she feel annoyed by me . I wanted to ask her whether she is ok if I text her and probably tell her my insecurities about texting her (eg. I felt scared that she will be annoyed) but I anticipate that she will feel awkward or I will feel awkward or both the next time I see her. I don't want that , I am struggling , I know part of this anticipation is probably biased by my experience but I can't figure that out . I am lost whenever I think about this I need advice please .... and also should I ask the second teacher about why she lied to me when I asked her whether she was ok to talk to me(she blocked me) to acknowledge that I know it and tell her not to be awkward and let her know I accept her opinions and thoughts ( tell me what to say to her and my appropriate goals to achieve while talking to her about this please) and last but not least , should I approach the first teacher when I met her ,(please suggest what to talk to her to let her know my feelings and I want to stay peaceful with her)

PS: I don't feel comfortable confiding in friends or family about this and most of all I don't want to too. I am not from the US. I am a boy . I took sanity test from this site and I scored 80+ in PTSD and bipolar .