Catriana,

I can relate to a lot of what you described in your marriage. Maybe I need to try some Zoloft. Actually I think my H could really use the Zoloft.

Are you sure the high sex drive was related to the Zoloft? It has been a long time since I dated, but I also recall a pattern where sex was great in the beginning of the relationship and then as the relationship progressed I became less interested. For me I think it is a trust/intimacy issue. I feel like crap for writing it but the best sex I can remember came in situations where there were no strings attached.