Your feelings are valid, @WovenGalaxy! I COMPLETELY agree with all the other wise and wonderful posters! If You do feel like your Friend overstepped some boundaries, then I Believe it is your right to tell Him just that. You did well by expressing your feelings about it. Hopefully he will understand where you're coming from! Try not to overthink it too much. i am sure he didn't have any bad intentions, it was just a cheeky joke, although your feelings are still valid of course. Keep trying your best with this guy! Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @WovenGalaxy, ALL of your Family, ALL of your Friends, your Friend, this Guy you find Cute and Funny, your Therapists, your Pdocs, your Nurses, your Social Workers and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK, MY DEAR, SWEET, KIND, AWESOM AND WONDERFUL FRIEND?!