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Old Mar 14, 2020, 11:03 PM
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Originally Posted by plynstrom266 View Post
I’m just very naive. I just wanted to be there for someone who needs it. I thought that if I stuck around and was patient then he would trust me more and more and eventually we would become good friends. I also just made endless excuses for him because of his paranoid schizophrenia diagnosis
I understand and I am caring myself, but, when someone isn't nice then don't give them more power to be mean again. When someone shows you they can be mean, believe them and walk away. You didn't and he just showed you again and again. Learn to walk away, you are caring and kind and you deserve to be appreciated.

And you know what some mean/selfish people do? When you walk away they often takes further steps to show you they ARE mean because they begin to covertly gossip about you to others. That is really PROVING how you were so right to walk away from that person.
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