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Old Mar 15, 2020, 06:30 AM
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Originally Posted by continuosly blue View Post
Passive aggressiveness is what I have to deal with on a daily basis.
The refusal to communicate. To me , this is a very devious form of behavior.
It’s very calculated. The refusal to discuss important issues. Simply put , these people seem to lack the ability to be truthful and trustworthy. Everything is a secret. Outright lies. Acting like they don’t care about your feelings whatsoever.
It’s a form of psychological warfare. I’m at a point in my life where I’m tired of playing games. I intend to start looking out for myself and stop wasting my time trying to figure out what the other person is NOT saying !
Best to all....

I'm so sorry. That must be completely maddening for you. I understand because I know how it feels to be on the receiving end of it. Refusing to communicate breaks down a relationship.

Yes, passive aggressive behavior can be quite devious when done deliberately. And it is quite toxic in that case.

Yes, take care of yourself and what you need foremost. Always look out for #1. Hugs to you.
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