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Old Mar 15, 2020, 08:32 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
If what this person does is harming to others and you know this persons real name, you might want to make a police report and let them investigate. If it’s not harming others, you can maybe let that go and block this person.

As about her saying you are judgemental. “Yup. You got it. I am judging you. Now ...off. Good bye”. It doesn’t matter what she says.

I often find out that people who scream about people being judgemental, just want people to be ok with their inappropriate behaviors. We aren’t sheep and don’t need to accept things. Yes we have rights to make judgments. Your judgement is that you don’t need her in your life.
I do not know her real name or her geo location. There's no way I could report it. It really was/is terrible though. Horrifying is the word.

And yes, I agree. I didn't take her words to heart. I imagine she has trouble keeping ANY friends. I imagine every single person who learned this about her would walk away in a heartbeat.

No, I definitely didn't need this kind of person in my life.

I have a ton of compassion for people and for their individual problems and/or issues, but there's a limit to my compassion when a person's actions go against my own moral principles. I cannot with reason maintain that kind of friendship. I would be betraying myself in that case.
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