I am so sorry, @MellowHoly! Perhaps You need to talk to them about ALL of this and see how it ALL goes from there? I certainly don't think they want to judge you on purpose, but it is your right to let them know that their behavior is bothering you a little bit. Let them know ALL of this is bothering you and see how it ALL goes from there! It is your right! Let us know and see how it goes from there. If they TRULY Love You, they will understand what you're saying and try their best not to do that! Give it a try and see how it goes from there. Sending many safe, warm hugs to BOTH you, @MellowHoly, ALL of your Family, ALL of your Friends and ALL of your Loved Ones! Keep fighting and keep rocking NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS, OK, MY DEAR, SWEET, KIND, AWESOME AND WONDERFUL FRIEND?!