ouch..

personally..i'd feel just like you seem to...lost, hurt and confused. Crossing a state line doesn't somehow stop a person from feeling pain, loss or confusion.

jan.. you can't DO anything to make him respond or have any sort of recourse legally.. but i dont think you're looking for that somehow. An explanation isn't an unreasonable expectation, but you may never get one. On THAT front.. if you have a new pdoc or can get one of either... maybe they can contact the old pdoc and get some sort of closure for you. Medical professionals are usually willing to talk to each other - for medical history if nothing else. It probably won't reverse the situation though.

and i'll tell you... this isn't your fault. It's not. i don't care how good bad or whatever you have been... he's the guy with the degree and the knowledge of what the dynamics were.

it's not good form on his part, period.

i know.. that prolly hurts too... to be critical of him... but it's true.. OF COURSE you're going to hang onto him.. he should have known that.

i am so sorry.

find yourself a therapist sugar... it's not a betrayal to do so. You need the support or you wouldn't have relied on him so